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Our love song save our marriage

Friday, December 3rd, 2010

I was having problem with our marriage and our love song save our marriage. This happened in the car while we are out to go the park for a walk. My tears rolling down my face and I saw him having the same. I refused to talk to him because there is so much happening around us. The radio station just in time playing the songs we love, it is our marriage song. It is Chinese song and we listen to it, my kid was in the car not knowing what happen.

We always try to keep things to ourselves we don’t want to involve others but when things don’t turn out right we talk about it. Sadly to see some people just don’t understand and things get even complicated.

Now I am better and happier, even though they are some things that I am unable to do. My dear knows it and he is always there for me. Our marriage is safe now but we need to maintain the marriage and not just let it be. It is like a car you need to maintain and service, nothing last forever unless you do something about it. It is not just marriage as it related to family too.

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Couldn’t sleep for many nights

Thursday, September 9th, 2010

It is big impact from the Red 1st Blogversary Contest, I couldn’t sleep for many nights. I need to face them and I need to be firm and steady.  I just hope for a better day tomorrow, life is full of challenge.

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What is your future plan?

Monday, August 30th, 2010

I am feeling kind of moody lately, one of the reasons is some people not thinking about our condition. The person keeps tell us good things about other people using and like they are using the electric cooker and having automatic gate at home. I know that I am earning not much online and my dear is just employee at the company. We have no plan about the future like what he is going to do if he is out of job. I know we need to think about it but what is the use as there is need money to start business. We don’t know about doing business and will be difficult to do and we need to think about what if the business fails.

I feel that if we have money we should save it and keep for emergency. We have credit card debt and some people don’t listen to your problem they just want you to buy things they are selling. I am not going to purchase them because I know I don’t have the money. I just hope they can leave us alone and be happy with what we have around. We are using the gas cooker for many years and electric cooker is expensive other than that we don’t know how good electric cooker is and the electricity bill will be costly. Someone did survey about electric cooker and it cost up to at least USD$1000 which depend on brand and type of electric cooker you prefer.

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CC:Is he the man?

Saturday, July 3rd, 2010

The topic of Couple Corner is about if I have married my dream man. During secondary school here some students already started having girl friend and boy friend. I had one boyfriend when I was 18 year old but it turn out he was not the type for me. He is more interested in his ex girlfriends than me. I am happy that I am one that decided to break up with him. Even today he had tattooed my name on his arm which he did it on his own, I never see it and never want to know about it but he showed up one day after my class at school. I know it that he is not the man for me, he just thinks about the girls in my class which he likes most.

In love and relationships, I have gone through a few only then I know that man for me. Now the man I love is busy 24/7 with his work, he is just employee at the company and career is first in his priority. I got to know him through Internet, first time we know each other was 1997 through MIRC chat room. We never get the chance to meet and until I am back to my parents’ home town which I am going to college by bus or train. The first time we meet up were at KLCC, Kuala Lumpur which near to my college. I often take bus or train to college which about 2 hours away from my home. Sometimes after dating he was the one to fetch me to college as early as 6.30 in the morning, we have breakfast at nearby hawker stall every morning. His work back then was less hectic and busy, now it is entirely different most of time he will be at work.

One thing I want my man to be is stood by me and understands me. It is not that hard but there was time he wasn’t able to do that it breaks my heart. In this relationship we have been through many up and down in life. Nobody is perfect, he is still the man that I standby and love.


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